if enm is “choose your own adventure,”
how do I Choose mine?
Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) comes in all shapes and sizes
If you are new to ENM or have been practicing for some form of it for awhile and still not finding a structure that works for you, this workshop will help steer you in the right direction - based on where you are today.
Workshop description
When we talk about Monogamy, we know how that works - but Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) is a whole different story!
ENM comes in a wide variety of structures. Some of them we have labels for: Polyamory, Swinging, Open Relationship, Relationship Anarchy, Threesomes, Triads, Polycules, Casual Dating/Sex, or Monogamish to name a few. In my experience, every non-monogamous relationship is different.
So then…
How do you figure out what relationship structure suits you best?
How do you reconcile that with your current partner(s)?
How do you imagine expressing your needs to future partner(s)?
Let’s spend some time figuring out what your adventure looks like!
If you have already taken my User Manual workshop, this will help you to expand on the Relationship portion of your manual. If you haven’t, this is still great fodder for figuring out what you want from your relationships!
About Mel (as it relates to this workshop)
Mel has been practicing ENM in some form since 2012. She has explored Swinging, Monogamish relationships, Solo-Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy, “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” Triads, Polycules, and so much more over the years. She currently lives with her Nesting Partner and they are creating the relationship structure that works best for them - it’s hard to define it in one word because ENM is “Choose Your Own Adventure!”
If you want to check out Mel’s adventure from Monogamy to Solo-Polyamory (2012-2019), check out “Sexology: The Musical!” - a LOT has happened since then, but what a way to start!!